How Sarah Palin may Change American Women Business Owners
September 5, 2008
Sarah Palin electrified the crowd at the RNC Wednesday night in St. Paul. Men cheered and laughed at the snipes and jokes and GOP women looked up enthralled with this new post-feminist woman with unshakeable confidence who calls herself “a hockey mom” and “a pitbull” and then sticks it to the competition.
I saw her as a totally new kind of woman. So many of us talk about how important it is for us to become more empowered. She has no need to talk about it – she is empowered. She doesn’t talk about needing equal rights – she believes she’s there. And what’s your problem if you don’t feel equal or if you feel men have an edge? She doesn’t. She’s busted down the doors of the “old boys network” while Hillary Clinton spent years trying to figure out how to get in There isn’t a “victim” or “martyr” bone in her body. She threw down the gauntlet to the Democrats and has basically said, “Bring it on, boys!”
This is a woman who grew up hunting and fishing before school and her parents told her, “You can be anything you want in life.” Palin is the new empowered woman we’ve been talking about for the last couple decades.
Personally, I’m not in agreement with her uber-conservative points of view – or her lack of experience IMHO to be VP – but I was in amazement at her super confidence.
I think millions of conservative and independent women may have shifted their sense of a role model for a woman Wednesday night from Oprah Winfrey or even Hillary Clinton to Sarah Palin. By comparison, Winfrey and Clinton come across as more of the old-style feminist – it’s like they’re still trying to prove to us their worth. Palin owns it. She doesn’t come from money but she definitely feels entitled.
* Do you think Palin has a tough time asking for what she wants?
* Do you think she feels nervous about picking up the phone and calling someone she met that might be a good lead?
* Do you think she has thoughts of “Maybe I can’t handle it” or “I don’t deserve it?”
* Do you think she lets men (or another woman) step ahead while she steps behind?
* If Palin was a business owner do you think she would undercharge for her products services or charge the going rate because she knows she’s good?
Maybe I’m crazy but I have a feeling that this new super confident woman – whether she becomes the first American woman VP in the US or not – is going to lead the way at least in showing US women an example of a woman who is supremely confident and lives an exciting, fulfilling and prosperous life. A lot of women are already saying they see Palin as the example of the woman who has it all. The career, the good looking husband, the kids.
Did you watch her speech? What did you think (not so much about the political points of view but about the person)? How did you feel about her as a woman? Would she be someone you’d want to get together with for lunch? Have as a boss? Or an employee? A customer or client in your business? Or not at all?
All the best,
Denise Michaels
Author, “Testosterone-Free Marketing”
PS: Visit me online at http://www.MentoringwithDenise.com or follow me on Twitter as DeniseMM
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Walter Paul Bebirian | September 5, 2008 at 2:31 pm
very good assessment Denise!
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Kaya Singer | September 5, 2008 at 3:33 pm
Hi Denise
Thanks for the opportunity to respond.
In an effort to be open-minded I will try really hard to not be reactive. I am so unimpressed with her that I can hardly write. What good is it to be confident if you use that confidence dishonestly and without regard to basic human rights. She values a value system that I don’t get at all. She doesn’t believe that we as humans have helped to create global warming, opposes sex education in schools and more. More importantly, she didn’t write her speech and it was written by a man and for a man.
She cannot even hold a candle to Hillary who spoke from her heart with love and compassion. I certainly hope that you are wrong and she is not a model of a new empowered woman. She doesn’t even represent me one iota. I want feminine energy at the top but from a woman than gets it and cares. She feels very off track and old school to me. She says the war in Iraq is God’s task. My God believes in resolving conflicts without violence and using war money to pay for health care, education and to support micro-businesses. My gosh- she thinks its ok for women to be paid less than men for the same job!
I could go on but God help us if this is the way we are headed! I guess I did end up being a bit reactive….hehe.
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Lukeither | September 5, 2008 at 4:03 pm
Denise, I didn’t watch Palin’s speech and have no interests in this “new type of woman”. I don’t buy into the myth that “anyone” can have it all…something/someone suffers.
I enjoy what I have and it’s what my parents/grandparents gave me, solid family values and a warm body at the end of the day. At the end of life family is all you have, your status/title doesn’t matter the fans don’t matter the only thing of value is having a warm body and a compassionate person to be there for you.
I wish all the Palin worshipers, all the success they seek, but something/someone always pays the price for a lipstick wearing “pit bull” and it’s usually a close family member. I do respect and admire Hillary Clinton’s choice of being there for her daughter, Chelsea until she became an adult and went off to college before she decided to blaze some trails. In my view that’s what a woman seeking to be a role model does.
Great post!
I’m not judging, I’m just saying though.
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Barbara Casey | September 5, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Hi Denise –
I don’t think that Gov. Palin represents “testosterone-free” to be honest. I think the “testosterone” just transferred to Sarah Palin. Pitbulls and moose-murdering don’t lead me to think I’ll see a business model I can relate to.
Talking that talk in front of fellow conservatives is quite different from pulling it off with a general audience, who may not appreciate the hard-nosed approach.
Self-confidence is a good thing. But I could do without the battle cry. There’s strength, too, in recognizing and valuing the oneness of all life and in seeing the Infinite Spirit in all beings.
Palin, to me, represents another us versus them way of looking at the world. An old political (and business) model, really. All that’s different is the clothing.
Saw your Twitter link… looking forward to more from you on this.
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denisemm | September 5, 2008 at 4:21 pm
I have a feeling that women over 50 – like me – will feel a lack of connection to this new uber-confident woman – because even though she looks great – they eschew the lack of a little more femininity and demure behavior. I have a sense that women under 40 – whether they like her point of view or not – will see her as amazing and awe-inspiring.
It was in the late-70s when Helen Gurley Brown started us on the message of “you can have it all.” I was in college at the time. Personally I thought there are trade-offs and my life has shown me that you can have it all – just not all at the same time. Women 40 and under started hearing the “you can have it all” message when they were little girls and much more impressionable. There were a couple cover articles in Time and Newsweek last year about how women who are trying to have it all and try to balance are going a little bonkers and suffering physically and emotionally. But the younger women keep trying to get it right. Despite shooting wolves while leaning out of planes I think some look at Palin and think, “Geez, she’s actually doing it.”
There isn’t a single comment from Lukeither, Kaya and Barbara that I can disagree with. There’s much to find objectionable with this woman and her meteoric rise. But sometimes the world changes in ways we don’t expect and that aren’t exactly to our liking.
After all, I never thought the “fashion police” would ever manage to make pantyhose hopelessly outdated and the sign of an old lady look – but they did.
All the best,
Denise Michaels
Author, “Testosterone-Free Marketing”
Visit me online at http://www.MentoringwithDenise.com and follow me on Twitter as DeniseMM.
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Kaya Singer | September 6, 2008 at 9:11 pm
I don’t know Denise
I spent the day with a group of late 20’s women and they were all very smart and educated and were not at all impressed with Sarah Palin. They felt they wanted to be strong an empowered but they didn’t see her as a model at all. In fact, quite the opposite, they seem to feel even more inspired now, to get out there and offer an alternative. At the end of the day, you can’t support someone just because they are strong and confident. You need to support her because you are aligned with her values and you think she would make a good leader. I don’t and neither did any of these young women.
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Regina | September 7, 2008 at 11:11 pm
Super great post Denise. I must say, I agree with all of the messages here. I’m what most consider an old fashioned girl. While I love being in control of who I am and my career, I always loved the fact that a [qualified] Man carried the torch, opened the car door and held down the home front with self assured masculinity.
Women like Sarah Palin (IMO) need much more than [deceptive] control… it’s something lacking deep within and again IMO they wear a mask that has to be continued each day even when they don’t feel like it.
I admire women like Hillary Clinton. She’s walked the walk and continues to talk the talk with a proven paper trail. I do agree that a lot of women desire to be strong and empowered however, at the end of the day, family values, social conscious, spirituality and the men who love them, take precedence over being in control or some [fake] self imposed power.
Wow! Thanks for letting me get that out!
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denisemm | September 8, 2008 at 7:10 am
Hi Regina:
That’s what’s great about America – we can all be different.
I don’t think there’s anything lacking inside with Palin or other women who strive for important roles – in fact I believe there’s a passion to do something significant in the larger world. In that way I’m aligned with Palin – but that’s probably the ONLY way I’m aligned with her. In almost every other way my viewpoints are extremely different from hers. I will acknowledge there are days when I’d just like to go to a spa for a week – but they are very short-lived.
The important thing is that you’re living the life that makes you happy – and that your beliefs (the man in charge) have worked out with your reality. It’s great when that happens.
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Anna Campbell | September 10, 2008 at 6:42 am
When I open up my heart to someone and invite them into my life as a friend I always look for certain qualities. 1. They are compassionate about their life. 2. They try and be honest and caring to those around them and themselves. 3. They are open to others opinions and views – whether they agree with them or not. 4. They are honestly doing their best to live their life they way they “say” they are living their life. 5. And they respect me as a person.
I haven’t seen very many of these qualities in Sarah Palin’s track record.
When I choose to work with someone as a co-worker or staff member I look for certain qualities. 1. Able to work within a team environment. 2. Understanding that while they have great ideas, they may not be the ideas we need to go with right now. 3. They understand what a budget is and how it is to be used. 4. Able to respect other peoples ideas and opinions. 5. Able to respond to others thoughts or criticisms in a mature, thoughtful, and careful way. 6. Able to understand the job at hand, capable of handeling the job at hand, and willing to put in the time and effort to do their best at the job at hand. 7. And very importantly, that they don’t waste other peoples time and money by doing things that are unrelated to the needs and demands of the job at hand.
I haven’t seen very many of these qualities in Sarah Palin’s track record.
When I look up to someone to lead this great country and to be someone for me to look up to and hold my head high, I look for the following qualities. 1. Someone that has a track record of maintaining verbally or written goals. 2. Someone that is compassionate about the people they will be serving. 3. Someone that has the best interest of the people they are serving. 4. Someone that understands where they people are that they are serving: financially. 5. Has the ethical background of being able to work on a team locally, nationally, and globally. 6. Is able to understand that the needs of the many do outweigh the needs of the few. 7. Is able to respond to attacks or insults without attacking or insulting in return. 8. Has a track record of staying within a budget and not incurring more expense then was previously on the books. 9. Stands up for what they believe in, and still listens and follows what the majority demand.
Unfortunately, Sarah Palin isn’t showing me much of those either.
While a strong and energetic woman can be beautiful. She also needs to understand that a serpents tongue and strong muscles will not bring peace to a land that is riddled with hatred (KKK), violance (gangs), pain (domestic abuse), and hunger (USA children not having food), and so much more. She needs to be strong as a caring, understanding, calm, and thoughtful person that puts the needs of others before her own.
I have seen what is capable of (with her family and her previous position in Alaska) and it scares me to think that a woman like that would be considered for any governing position over anything (including a family).
My own 2 cents.
Anna Campbell
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